What no one tells you about wedding décor
Everyone tells you to start a Pinterest board.
Few tell you what to do when that board turns into a chaotic mash-up of pampas grass, black candles, and fifteen different centrepiece styles.
The good news is, you’re not alone, and you’re not doing it wrong.
Your wedding day isn’t about following trends. It’s about creating a space that feels like home. One that reflects who you are and how you want this moment to feel.
Let’s bring the joy (and the sanity) back into this part of the planning process.
Make it feel authentic
You don’t have to impress anyone. You don’t have to chase a trend.
You have to feel like you when you look around your space.
Years from now, when you flip through your photos, you should see yourselves, not Pinterest’s greatest hits.
Start there. That’s your compass.
Start with words
Sometimes, naming something helps us see it clearly.
Describe your style in three words.
Think: modern, romantic, eclectic, organic, rustic, edgy, contemporary, fun, bold, playful, whimsical.
What words feel like home? Start there.
These words will guide everything from your bouquet shape to your table linen.
Now, colours
What colours make you feel something?
All the shades of beige?
Soft greens? Dreamy blush and ivory?
Maybe you’re drawn to deep moody tones or bold pops of colour.
You don’t need a full palette to start—just a sense of what feels good when you picture it surrounding you.
How floral-heavy do you want to go?
Some couples dream of walking into a floral wonderland. Others imagine clean, candlelit tables with just a stem or two.
There’s no right answer.
But ask yourself:
“What volume of flowers would make me happy?”
Do you picture lush, layered gardens or thoughtful minimalism?
Textures tell a story, too
What type of fabric or texture sparks joy?
What does it feel like?
Organic linen? Moody velvet? Unbleached calico or soft silks?
These textures hold energy. They say something. Let them speak for you.
Don’t design to impress,
design to feel
The best wedding spaces don’t scream on trend—they whisper, this feels like them.
Design for goosebumps.
For comfort.
For joy.
Let Instagram catch up later.
A few questions to ask yourself
- What colours do I love in my everyday life?
- Which three words describe the kind of celebration I want?
- How floral-forward do I want the day to feel?
- What details in other weddings make me feel something?
- What don’t I like, and why?
Still feeling stuck?
You’re not alone.
This is where your florist (hi, it’s us) steps in to guide and translate what you’re drawn to into something grounded, cohesive, and breathtaking.
You don’t need the answers, you just need a spark.
Step-by-step:
how to find your style
- Pick 3 words – not how it looks, but how it feels.
- Choose colour direction – which tones light you up?
- Decide on flower volume – lush or minimal?
- Think about texture – velvet, linen, ceramic, glass?
- Save 5 images that tick all the above
- List what you don’t like – it helps too.
- Put it together – even a screenshot collage is enough.
Questions to ask your florist
- What flowers are in season for our wedding month?
- What lasts well in our weather?
- How can we make a big impact without going over budget?
- Can ceremony pieces be reused for the reception?
- Do you supply candles, vessels, or structures?
- What would you suggest for our vision?
Common terms you might hear
- Bouquet – What you hold down the aisle.
- Boutonnière – A flower pinned to a suit jacket.
- Centrepiece – Your table’s floral (or candle) focal point.
- Garland – Long foliage that runs across tables or beams.
- Installation – Statement pieces like hanging florals or arches.
- Moodboard – Your vision, in pictures.
Common fears
(and why you can let them go)
“What if I regret my choices later?”
You’ll regret ignoring your gut more than skipping the flower wall. Trust your instincts.
“I don’t know anything about flowers.”
You’re not supposed to. That’s our job. You just need to know how you want to feel.
“Will it be enough?”
Abundance doesn’t always mean more. It means meaningful. And we can help you get there.
If you and your partner have different styles
You love neutral and neat.
They love deep colours and chaos.
Good news: contrast creates magic.
Blend textures. Borrow tones from both styles.
Your florist will help you make it cohesive.
What impacts cost the most?
- Seasonality – Not in season = expensive.
- Volume – More stems = more spend.
- Imported vs. local – Local blooms usually cost less.
- Complexity – Hanging things from ceilings = more hands, more hours.
If you’re trying to save, ask where your money will make the most visible impact.
Final thoughts
You don’t need a Pinterest-perfect board.
You need a wedding that feels like you.
Forget the pressure to dazzle.
Choose details that make you feel something.
And let your florist take it from there.
